A 90-day program to help women make the decision of staying or leaving after infidelity

You’re a smart, driven woman but can’t seem to decide one way or another on this one decision

You wait for something to happen that will make the decision easier

Your emotions are all over the place from day to day

You dread the future if nothing changes

You care about others’ opinions more than your own

You stopped trusting yourself

That’s all about to change

Welcome to Know in 90 where:

You’ll look forward to the future you are in charge of building

You’ll care more about what you think than what anyone else thinks

You’ll stop second-guessing yourself

You’ll stop being afraid of big emotions

You’ll have a clear vision of who you are on the other side of this decision and commit to her, no matter what

You will decide and move forward

You deserve peace. You deserve love. You are more than ready for this.

How would it feel to have the decision made?

How much brain space would it free up? To be fully committed without looking back? No more sleepless nights feeling like you are dying a slow death because you are so stuck. No more sitting on the fence. No more dread whenever you think about it.

You have waited long enough

My friend, I know where you are at.

I know how heavy this weighs on your heart and mind, and how much you want to get this decision right.

I too spent a whole lot of time in the in-between, desperately wanting to move forward with my life but knowing there was so much on the line. With a 16 year marriage and 6 kids in the mix, I couldn’t afford to get it wrong.

But once I committed to the decision, knowing in my bones that it was what I wanted, I cried tears of relief. The agony of indecision was over. I could finally move forward. And I know how to help you move forward too.

Imagine in 90 days…

"I have taken back my life. And let me tell you, it feels great! I am no longer stuck. Instead, I am thriving.”

When I decided to work with Andrea, I had already put one year into reconciliation with my husband after discovering his affairs. I had tried numerous therapists, including an affair recovery group with women from around the globe. These experiences gave me plenty of opportunities to share my feelings and rehash the details of my trauma. But they didn’t help me heal; nor did they give me tools to handle future relationships.

Through my sessions with Andrea, I began to sort out what I wanted for my future self
and gave myself grace for the things that I had absolutely no control over. My confidence began to slowly build and I appreciated characteristics and qualities in myself that I had somehow overlooked for years. I made the decision to leave the marriage after discovering the affairs had continued. I probably would have made that same decision if I wasn’t working with Andrea. But I would have been lost in self-pity, low self-esteem and guilt. I would not have been able to look forward to a future self who was confident, capable of abundance in my life, joyful. Yes, I can honestly say that I experience those things on a daily basis now!

Dana V.

What you get:

1 video training a week

Each week you’ll have access to a training and worksheet that will help shift your thinking and clear your mind. The trainings are simple enough to implement immediately, but life-changing in how effective they are.

1 live coaching call a week with Andrea

Group coaching is like magic. In this space, not only do you get opportunities to be coached, but you get to watch other women just like you get the support they need. This can be even more effective than being coached yourself because you’ll be able to hear it from a more objective place.

Private Facebook group with other women who are as committed to moving forward as you are.

This is where you get to hang out with other courageous women who are just as tired of waiting around as you are. As the saying goes, “If you want to go fast, go alone. But if you want to go far, go together.” In this space, we are doing both. Making decisions. Challenging your thinking. Having those tough conversations. Changing our own lives. Support from others going through the same thing cannot be overrated.

Alumni support for a full year

You’ve made the decision. But as you implement the decision, new challenges arise. That is why you will have support for an entire year. You’ll be able to get your questions answered and join other alumni and encourage each other along.

You know you are meant for more.

You are successful in every other area of your life – yet this one part makes you feel like a failure. You know your indecision is robbing you of peace. It is TIME.

You will either gracefully leave the marriage, or go all in on the one you are in, no regrets.

Either way, you will come at the decision with love and strength. You will make this decision from the very best version of you who knows who she is, what she wants and uses her own values as a guide.

Either way, you will have guardrails set in place so that if your personal boundaries are crossed, you’ll know exactly what to do.

You matter. Your life matters. Don’t let the fear of what the answer will be keep you stuck for one minute more.

“The techniques that Andrea teaches have helped me go from feeling like a victim, to realizing the power within myself to take control of my life and make it what I want it to be.”

“I came to Andrea after becoming frustrated with traditional therapy, where you talk and talk about why you feel the way you do, but there is never any real solution or plan to overcome the issues. Andrea gave me concrete things to work on and a clear path to healing and moving on with my life. This is definitely a journey, and I still have work to do, but each meeting with Andrea brings new insights and strength. The techniques that she teaches have helped me go from feeling like a victim, to realizing the power within myself to take control of my life and make it what I want it to be. I am so grateful for Andrea and the hope she has given me.”

Anna F.

Are you done waiting? Let’s go.

The program starts


Your future is waiting for you. Come make the decision and move on with your life.