You wait for something to happen that will make the decision easier
Your emotions are all over the place from day to day
You dread the future if nothing changes
You care about others’ opinions more than your own
You stopped trusting yourself
That’s all about to change
You’ll look forward to the future you are in charge of building
You’ll care more about what you think than what anyone else thinks
You’ll stop second-guessing yourself
You’ll stop being afraid of big emotions
You’ll have a clear vision of who you are on the other side of this decision and commit to her, no matter what
You will decide and move forward
How much brain space would it free up? To be fully committed without looking back? No more sleepless nights feeling like you are dying a slow death because you are so stuck. No more sitting on the fence. No more dread whenever you think about it.
You have waited long enough
I know how heavy this weighs on your heart and mind, and how much you want to get this decision right.
I too spent a whole lot of time in the in-between, desperately wanting to move forward with my life but knowing there was so much on the line. With a 16 year marriage and 6 kids in the mix, I couldn’t afford to get it wrong.
But once I committed to the decision, knowing in my bones that it was what I wanted, I cried tears of relief. The agony of indecision was over. I could finally move forward. And I know how to help you move forward too.
Mandy L.
Each week you’ll have access to a training and worksheet that will help shift your thinking and clear your mind. The trainings are simple enough to implement immediately, but life-changing in how effective they are.
Group coaching is like magic. In this space, not only do you get opportunities to be coached, but you get to watch other women just like you get the support they need. This can be even more effective than being coached yourself because you’ll be able to hear it from a more objective place.
This is where you get to hang out with other courageous women who are just as tired of waiting around as you are. As the saying goes, “If you want to go fast, go alone. But if you want to go far, go together.” In this space, we are doing both. Making decisions. Challenging your thinking. Having those tough conversations. Changing our own lives. Support from others going through the same thing cannot be overrated.
We know you are busy and might not be able to make it to all the calls. That’s why there is a private podcast where all calls are loaded and you can listen at your leisure. This also ensures that you are immersed in the program. You can listen over and over as you implement new skills and tools. Immersion leads to change.
You are successful in every other area of your life – yet this one part makes you feel like a failure. You know your indecision is robbing you of peace. It is TIME.
You will either gracefully leave the marriage, or go all in on the one you are in, no regrets.
Either way, you will come at the decision with love and strength. You will make this decision from the very best version of you who knows who she is, what she wants and uses her own values as a guide.
Either way, you will have guardrails set in place so that if your personal boundaries are crossed, you’ll know exactly what to do.
You matter. Your life matters. Don’t let the fear of what the answer will be keep you stuck for one minute more.
From the bottom of my heart… Thank you. Thank you for helping me to see my value and strength during a time when I felt so small. Thank you for seeing and validating my tears and my pain, while simultaneously equipping me with the tools I needed to move to a better place. Thank you for giving me a community and pulling me out of self-imposed isolation as a result of shame. You have helped me more than you could possibly know.
Katie S.