Get your life back after infidelity
A year long coaching program to help you move forward with confidence, peace and clarity.
Many women, post-betrayal, constantly question if they should stay or go.
Are you struggling with:
- Holding back from your partner, uncertain if you can truly move past it?
- Relentless turmoil, imagining them together?
- Disbelief that someone you trusted deeply could inflict such pain?
- Resentment over all the healing work needed from a wound you didn't inflict?
- Doubts about ever feeling "normal" again?
Before the program, I was drowning in pain and despair post-betrayal. With Andrea’s expert guidance and the support of an understanding group, I regained control over my emotions and life. Of all the therapy I underwent, Andrea’s program delivered concrete, infidelity-specific skills that will remain with me forever.
Rachel H.
I believe it's possible to not only get your life back, but to make it better than ever before.
Clear Decisions
Discover and commit
to what you truly desire.
Inner Peace
Maintain calm regardless
of external chaos.
Bright Tomorrow
Embrace excitement
for the future
It's about thriving, not just surviving.
I get it. Navigating infidelity can be intense and lonely.
I know you want to be an empowered woman who’s got her life back. In order to do that you need to heal from the wounds of betrayal. The problem is infidelity has shattered your trust and self-worth. This can leave you feeling vulnerable, and unsure of what the future holds.
I believe every woman deserves to rise from these ashes, stronger and more assured than ever. That’s why I’ve dedicated half a decade to perfecting a process that guarantees women find their strength again, regardless of their partner’s choices.
Here’s how my approach is unique:
- Beyond Survival: I champion the Post-Infidelity Growth Method™, ensuring a thriving, fulfilling life is in your future.
- 5 Milestone System: Master my five-part method, a timeless tool to navigate any challenges.
- Holistic Healing: Integrating both cognitive and somatic techniques, I ensure your healing is comprehensive and deep-rooted.
6
Years In Business
10,500
Hours Coaching Clients
11
Years of Peace Post Infidelity
You deserve more than "just getting by"
Reclaim your power and thrive in every facet of your life.
Here's how it works
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Join the Program
Commit to growing through your infidelity and becoming the best version of you -
Join the Community
Surround yourself with the community of empowered, dedicated women who are committed to their brightest future -
Enjoy Your Life Again
Find your new sense of purpose and start thriving- not just surviving
"I learned to embrace my life's 2.0 version, finding clarity and purpose amidst the pain."
Sara P.
Before I started working with Andrea I felt desperate and at a loss of what to do and where my life was headed. My life and my relationship with my husband has since started to shift and I feel peace, hope and direction for my future. I am so grateful to be part of such an amazing group of courageous, loving women who understand what each other is going through. Andrea’s coaching, love, and support has transformed my life.
Clare B. 
I felt lost, confused and hopeless and Andrea's ability to share her gifts were transformational for me. I learned the relationship that needed the most repair was not my marriage, it was the relationship with myself. The work she does and the tools she teaches you go beyond healing from infidelity.
Andrea didn't empower me, she showed me how to empower myself. It's the greatest gift anyone has ever given me.
Holly T. 
Before working with Andrea, I was overwhelmed every single day with grief and crippling anxiety. I was going through my motions in day-to-day life, but not actually living. After meeting with her I knew right away I was in the right place at the right time. Andrea taught me how to make decisions from a place of peace. She taught me the skills I need to empower myself, to feel safe in my decisions, and to rebuild my self-trust.
Angel H. 
Join the Get Your Life Back After Infidelity Program
- A 1 year group program
- High-level, On-Demand Trainings
- Live Coaching Calls
Milestone 1: Emotional Freedom
Learn to respond rather than react to your triggers. Know exactly how to take care of yourself when the waves of anger, fear, grief and despair hit. Let go of the fear of intrusive thoughts, knowing you have the tools that make them lose their power.
Milestone 2: Facing Truth
Stop suffering in the story your mind has made up about his infidelity and look at the data being offered to you. When we know what happened and can clearly see what is happening now, we are able to discern between our feelings and what is actually true. Know exactly what answers you need from him, and what to do with the information offered.
Milestone 3: Vision
Become the visionary for your own life based on your own personal values and standards. Get laser focused on the kind of relationship and life you want, and learn the precise skills that will help you get there. When we get dialed in on the vision of our life, those that are meant to come rise with us.
Milestone 4: Relationship Skills
After the initial crisis of infidelity has settled, we go back to our old patterns because it is what we know. To move forward, we need a new set of tools to work with. Learn how to step out of an individualistic mindset to creating a relationship of unity and collaboration. Whether you are staying or going, learning new ways of relating with others will attract those meant to be closest to you.
Milestone 5: Self-Leadership
Learn to lead yourself forward even when he’s not giving you the validation you want, and even when you have no idea how it will end. This will create the strongest version of yourself, ever. It will instill a power in you that is immovable and unshakable. You will stop being dependent on what he’s doing to determine your mood, and believe in yourself no matter what.
Bonuses
In addition to all coaching calls and trainings, you’ll receive the following bonuses:
In addition to all coaching calls and trainings, you’ll receive the following bonuses, designed to provide the perfect balance of group collaboration and individualized focus:
Quarterly Virtual Retreats
Tri-Annual Virtual Workshops
Gain complimentary access to exclusive, paid trainings and workshops for the duration of your time in the program. These workshops bring the group together for shared learning and insights while also offering opportunities to apply concepts to your unique situation.
This includes in-depth live trainings, more opportunities for coaching, surprise gifts, guest teachers and time to deeply connect with group members.
6 (30 minute) Private Coaching Sessions with Certified Coach
Complimentary Access to paid trainings and workshops for the duration of your time in the program
Get a team member’s brain on your life and situation so you know what to focus on first in the program.
This is for you if...
- You know you want to stop living in pain everyday
- You want to get off the fence about staying or going
- You have already decided but don’t know how to stop doubting yourself
- You want a thriving, cherishing, trusting relationship once again
- You want a community of smart, like-minded women to walk this path with
- You want high-level coaching that will help you know exactly what to do next
- You want to stop focusing so much on him and put the focus on you and your healing
- You want to feel alive again
Frequently Asked Questions
Learning HOW to successfully stay or leave will save you from future suffering. Often women decide but don’t know how to stop doubting their choice, stop feeling guilt or shame, and stop worrying about what people think. They don’t know how to stop being angry, even though they know they are choosing to be there. New skills are required to peacefully stay or leave.
No. I have no agenda of if clients stay or go. I do care that my clients learn to operate from their highest, wisest selves so they get the results they want. Sometimes this means staying, sometimes this means going.
No. There are women from all walks of life in this group. All faiths and beliefs are welcome and safe.
100%. I am of the belief that our greatest growth comes in the form of intimate relationships. When relationships experience crisis, an opportunity is given to change from the way it was into something mature, loving, and strong. Infidelity can be the catalyst for seeing clearly what needs to go, and what both partners are willing to commit to to make something immovable.
The advanced time is now Wednesdays at either 10 AM or 2 PM MST, depending on the week.
$4997
Payment plans available as well as follows:
3 Payments of $1697, or 12 payments of $450.
To request this plan, email hello@andreagiles.com for the link to join.
All calls are recorded and loaded for both video and audio viewing within 24 hours.
Those that commit to at least one live all power week set themselves up for the greatest success. Attend what you can, but be sure to watch the replays as well to deeply integrate the things you learn.
Refunds are issued on a case-by-case basis. We are committed to your success, and will take into consideration individual concerns, as well as how immersed in the program the client is.
You can join anytime, but there are time-sensitive, highly valuable bonuses for not waiting to join. This is to encourage you to be decisive and advocate for your own best interest post-infidelity.
It will vary as the program grows throughout the year. There will always be opportunities to get coached, and extra calls will be added as needed to meet the needs of the group.
No, there is not. Once in the program, you can choose to use your 1-1 calls or not, but they are meant to supplement your work inside the group. You can ask questions about modules you are studying in the program, or get private help with anything you want a little extra time or privacy with. Even if you are already working with someone 1-1, spending additional time with our trained coaches will only ensure your success.
Because of the private nature of infidelity, those in the group are held to a high standard that I go over in the welcome video. To this day, there has never been a single breach of privately shared information inside the group. If it ever occurred, the offender would be removed from the group immediately.
It is less about the difference in general and more about how each individual therapist or coach works with infidelity. Many therapists are not specially trained in this area, or bring their own biases into it. Knowing a coaches’ or therapists’ philosophy and how they help their clients is more important than general info about coaches and therapists.
After running many iterations and lengths of this program, we have decided a year is the best fit for the transformation you will have. It’s not just about getting out of crisis mode. It’s about taking the pain and utilizing it to build a life you respect and are at peace with. This is not a quick fix, and we want to be with you during each struggle that comes up as you heal from the inside out.
Frequently Asked Questions
One full year. You will spend 4 months in the “Foundations” portion of the program where you do a deep-dive into all the essentials needed to move forward from infidelity.
Then you will spend 8 months in the community “Alumni” program where you will have continued coaching support, training, and a tribe of like-minded women as you implement all you have learned. You also have first access to in-person (AMAZING) events as a GYLB Alumnus.
Tuesdays and Thursdays at 12 PM MST for the first 4 months of program.
Live calls first 3 weeks of month, integration week 4th week (no calls)
Alumni group: Tuesday at either 10 AM MST or 2 PM MST for remaining 8 months (3x/month).
5k for the entire year with payment options available.
All calls are recorded and loaded for both video and audio viewing within 24 hours.
You can ask for coaching in the Facebook group, or send questions in ahead of time to be answered, even if you are not on the call. You can also get coaching in the bonus, “Ask a Coach” feature.
This is not available. After taking many women through the program, the ones with the continued support of coaching and community have made the biggest, most long-lasting strides.
January 9th.
You can join anytime, but there are time-sensitive, highly valuable bonuses for not waiting to join. This is to encourage you to be decisive and advocate for your own best interest post-infidelity.
It will vary as the program grows throughout the year. There will always be opportunities to get coached, and extra calls will be added as needed to meet the needs of the group.
Yes. You can add supplemental 1-1 calls with Mandy, a coach and team member. Info to purchase will be sent in welcome emails.
You don’t have to keep suffering unnecessarily.
Together, we’ll coach you past your hurdles, help remind you who are are, and set you on a path to a bright, empowered future.
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